Your Wife is Jesus: “Outlines of Romantic Theology,” c. 1924

We’re back to the book summaries! This is the posting of summaries of each of CW’s books, one book per week, in chronological order, that I was doing for a while and then abandoned at the end of January. I plan to pick this up again for a while, then take breaks for other themes and topics, and continue on through his entire corpus. Just hang on six more years, and we’ll start to get to Williams’s more mature works. But meanwhile, today’s book is a fascinating work that is one of his ODDest.

Charles Williams Summary #7: Outlines of Romantic Theology (1924?)ORT

Outlines of Romantic Theology is CW’s first attempt to explicate, in prose, one of his signature concepts: the idea that the “sexual love between and man and a woman…is capable of being assumed into sacramental and transcendental heights” (pp. 7, 9). In the words of this book’s editor, Alice M. Hadfield, Romantic Theology is the belief that “In experiencing romantic love, we experience God” (p. xi).

Williams kept working out the nature and implications of this idea throughout his life; this volume was only the first of many such attempts. It was never published in his lifetime; Hadfield edited and published it after CW’s death. His final statement on Romantic Theology came in one of his last books—accounted his best work by some readers—The Figure of Beatrice (1943). The reader should keep in mind, then, that Outlines of Romantic Theology is an incomplete work, a partial statement, an immature view.

With that caveat, what follows is some attempt to summarize the concepts and contents of Outlines of Romantic Theology with great brevity.

Williams begins Outlines of Romantic Theology somewhat in the middle of things: with his stated assumptions that his peculiar interpretation of love is universal, commonplace, obvious, and orthodox. He says that the suggestions he makes cannot appear to every Christian “as anything but natural and probable” (p. 8) and that “Romantic Theology is part of Christian Theology” (p. 8). This is part of what I find both endearing and perplexing about CW: he always appears to think that his own quirky ideas are mainstream. Some scholars argue, in his defense, that they are, only oddly expressed. Perhaps. Perhaps not.

The definitions of Romantic Theology that I quoted above emerge gradually, worked into the fabric of his introductory remarks about Christian Theology in general. This contributes to the idea that he thinks his interpretation is commonplace, and also makes it difficult to determine exactly what Romantic Theology is.

In the second chapter, CW discusses the “principles” of Romantic Theology, which goes a great distance towards defining it. He begins: “The principles of Romantic Theology can be reduced to a single formula: which is, the identification of love with Jesus Christ, and of marriage with His life.”

That’s it. That’s Romantic Theology. Love = Jesus, and marriage = Jesus’s life.

What do you think of that? Let me slow it down a bit:

I. Love equals Jesus Christ. Throughout this little book, CW insists that this equation is exact, definite, and literal. It is not a metaphor; love is not “like” Jesus; we are not “like” Jesus when we love someone (well, we are, of course, but that’s not what he’s talking about here). The love between a man and a woman IS JESUS. I think it would be accurate to say that when we are in love, that is one of the many ways that we experience God’s love—but that is to reduce and to sanitize the wildness of CW’s teaching. It does mean that, certainly, but it means more. It is half of a mantra that CW would use frequently in his later writings: “This is Thou, this also is not Thou.” He believed that we had to say that to God about everything.

When we are smashed by tragedy, we have to say of the tragedy: This is God (i.e., God has sent this, it is under His control, He is manifested to me through it—but again, that simplifies and domesticates CW’s more feral diction). But we also have to say of the tragedy: This is not God (i.e., this is because of sin and the fall of humanity, God does not want me to suffer, God has a plan in place to save me from my suffering ultimately, and so forth). We always have to say both of any object, person, experience, event, etc.

So it is with romantic love. When I look at my Beloved, I need to say: he is God (in the sense that God is revealing His divine love to me through this man’s love), and I need to say: he is not God (he is a created being, he is a sinner, etc.). Of the love-experience itself—the whole course from falling in love through marriage until death—I need to say: this is God (I know God through it) and this is not God (I must not idolize this experience or have false assumptions about its blissful continuity).

On to the next point in that quote above:

II. Marriage equals the life of Christ.

true loveCW means this quite literally. He means that each love-affair (yes—I chose those words deliberately, and will come back to that) follows the narrative pattern of Jesus’ life on earth. He lists ten moments in the life of Christ and tentatively suggests how they might match up to the events of a romantic relationship. He is absolutely adamant, however, that we must not force these identifications too far: it is dangerous to try to determine which stage my marriage has reached at any given moment. I offer these points here, then, much more schematically than CW would like (with apologies):

  1. Christ’s Birth ≈ falling in love
  2. Baby Jesus’ Presentation in the Temple ≈ dedicating the lover to God; giving over the relationship to God’s guidance and providence
  3. The Massacre of the Innocents ≈ the “normal human relapse and boredom which follows swiftly” after the initial “high experience” of the first days of passionate love (p. 19).
  4. Jesus’ Childhood in Nazareth ≈ I am not certain, but I think this corresponds to the engagement period; it is what CW calls the “years of retirement” that intervene before the wedding (p. 20). Maybe this somewhat explains his own nine years of engagement to Florence?
  5. Jesus’ Baptism ≈ the Wedding.
  6. The Temptation ≈ perhaps the temptation to give up on the pursuit of Romantic Theology, to stop doing the hard work of seeing the spouse as God sees him/her, and to stop working at the difficult process of sanctification as it specifically plays out in marriage. It is also a temptation to give in to “depression, boredom, monotony, dislike” (p. 21).
  7. The Transfiguration ≈ again, CW is not explicit here, on purpose. He does not want to reduce this theology to a neat chart (as I am doing!). But based on the discussion of the Temptation, above, it seems clear that the Transfiguration is transforming the lovers out of that phase of passivity. Later, he mentions that any number of these stages can be gone through over and over, and not in this order. That seems like common sense.
  8. The Passion of Love, i.e., the Crucifixion ≈ the time when “the mere process of things seems to destroy love—duties and obligations seem to abolish it” (p. 22). It is not the actual, physical death of one of the lovers, because this is the life of their Love, not of themselves as individuals. But this is not the end of the story: CW adjures us to remember “that Death is assuredly consummated in a universal and heroic sense in Jesus Christ” (p. 22). I have written about the narrative recurrence of Christ’s story elsewhere, in a blog post about christology in Doctor Who, and hope to write more about that topic on this blog in future. Finally:
  9. The Resurrection ≈ well, the resurrection of that love after its temporary death. But that is not the end of the story. The end is:
  10. the Ascension ≈ the time when “Love that was visibly present, a light and a wonder, withdraws himself into the secret and heavenly places; and in His stead there descends upon the lovers the indwelling grace of the Spirit, nourishing and sustaining them” (p. 25). Whether this is after the death of one spouse is not stated. Quite likely CW intend this point, as all of them, to have multiple applications.

Now I really have done a disservice to this book by using up more than my usual word allotment and only talking about the first two chapters. Yet it is essential to understand the principles CW lays down in this unusual little book. I encourage you to get a copy of this slim volume and evaluate it for yourself. And keep in mind, again, that this is his early statement on the topic; for his final thoughts, we’ll have to wait 20 years (or at least 20 blog posts) for The Figure of Beatrice.

About Sørina Higgins

Sørina Higgins is Editor-in-Chief of the Signum University Press. She holds a Ph.D. in English from Baylor University. Dr. Higgins is currently co-editing a volume on the ethical turn in speculative fiction with Dr. Brenton Dickieson and previously edited an academic essay collection entitled The Inklings and King Arthur. She is also the author of the blog The Oddest Inkling, devoted to a systematic study of Charles Williams’ works. As a creative writer, Sørina has a volume of short stories, A Handful of Hazelnuts, forthcoming from Signum’s own press. Outside of academia, Sørina enjoys practicing yoga, playing with her cats, cooking, baking, podcasting, gardening, dancing, and ranting about the state of the world.
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7 Responses to Your Wife is Jesus: “Outlines of Romantic Theology,” c. 1924

  1. David Llewellyn Dodds says:

    It is worth here following the first sentence you partially quote, with part of the one preceding it and part of the one after it (p. 7): “It is a theology as exact as any other kind, but having for cause and subject those experiences of man which […] are generally termed ‘Romantic’.” And, “That there are other human experiences of this same far-reaching nature is undeniable – nature and friendship are perhaps the chief”. This description would, I think, bear fruitful comparison with a book published nine years later, in 1933, by his younger future friend, C.S. Lewis, which bears the subtitle, “An Allegorical Apology for Christianity, Reason and Romanticism”: Pilgrim’s Regress – especially if we include the “Preface to Third Edition” which Lewis added in 1943.

    Having noted that, Williams does explicitly go on to focus “almost entirely” on “the principles of Romantic Theology as applicable to romantic love” (p. 7).

    It is further worth noting that in concluding his first chapter, he writes (pp. 12-13), “It should also be said that although the discussion throughout tends to be conducted from the point of view of the man, anything that is postulated of his experience is postulated also of the woman’s.”

    Mrs. Hadfield notes in her Introduction (p. x) that on 21 August 1924 John Pellow records in his diary that Williams “is writing Outlines of Romantic Theology, a prose version of Divorce, and Conformity” – his third and second volumes of verse respectively. She adds, “Pellow had not, of course, then seen Windows of Night, which was to be published a few months later.” In fact, C.W. had read poetry which would eventually appear there to the Pellows as early as 23 April 1921, and sent him several more such poems on 19 November 1923, while 3 May 1924 finds Pellow glancing “thro’ the MSS. of New Poems (the present title – but not finally settled upon).” The letter to Pellow of “5 September [1924]” in which C.W. discusses “the pronunciation of ‘Palomides’ ” (Exploration, pp. 48, 239, note 33) actually does so, if I am not mistaken, in the context of Pellow reading the proofs of Windows of Night for him.

    All of this probably only makes her inclusion of a quotation from a poem in Windows of Night to illustrate Pellow’s “prose version” remark all the more apt (p. xi):

    Once in a glory
    To my heart he came,
    Born of a maiden,
    With love for his name[.]

    This more inclines one to think in terms of ‘Your Wife is (Mystically) the Mother of Jesus’. We might see as anticipating C.W.’s note that “anything that is postulated of his experience is postulated also of the woman’s”, his discussion in the Commonplace Book of the difficulty in his projected epic of Galahad having a devotion to the Virgin Mary, as, in the poem, he images her. So, we might, however surprisingly, equally think in reference to a wife, ‘Your Husband is (Mystically) the Mother of Jesus’!


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  5. David Llewellyn Dodds says:

    Something that looks interesting in the context of this book, and Williams’s thought leading to it and continuing beyond it, is Oliver O’Donovan’s recent essay:

    For starters, in his attention to “a teaching which had already been very fluidly treated since Augustine first described the three goods of marriage as ‘offspring, faith and sacrament’, a trio of ascending dignity corresponding to body, soul and spirit”, and the Sixteenth-century “Anglican Reformers, whose priority it was to free themselves from the incubus of Peter Lombard’s theory of the seven sacraments, reasserting the unique place of baptism and eucharist. They reconceived the third good to skirt around the sacramental reference and to incorporate certain aspects of the second good that risked being lost sight of”.


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